Happy Birthday Little Buddy

I hope you all will indulge me a little. My baby boy, my final baby, the very, very last of the bunch turned 1 today. The big oh-one. I have to admit I am feeling a little sad. It feels really weird to be almost out of the baby stage for the rest of my life. So I decided to take a little photo journey into the past year. It has gone so fast.

Here is my little guy right after he was born. I can hardly believe that we really do have a boy. The first thing I said after he was born was “is it still a boy?”



I love that newborn face


Daddy couldn’t wait to get him on a computer!





Happy Birthday Little Buddy




Happy Birthday, my first born

There is something special about your first born. She was the baby I had dreamed about for years. I am the type of gal that was born to be a mother. I was dreaming about and planning for my babies since I was a little girl. Nine years ago this little baby came screaming her way into my world! She was beautiful, my little baby, the baby of my dreams. She was placed in my arms and made me a mother.


Punk #1’s birthday is today! Happy Birthday darlin! She is nine now, I can’t believe how the years have flown! Saturday we had a birthday party for her with all her family. She shared it with her little brother that was born two days after her 8th birthday. She still calls him her “birthday present!”

Happy Birthday Kallie!!!


Healthy eating


After reading some other blogs written by friends about healthy eating and the cost of it, I have been doing a lot of thinking. I will agree that eating healthy can be expensive. You can get a big loaf of white bread for 99 cents, where a loaf of whole wheat can cost almost 3 dollars, and they are smaller loafs. I have decided the trick to eating healthy on a low budget is making as much of your food as you can from scratch. I bake my own bread, and I figure it costs me about a dollar a loaf, and it is whole wheat bread (and so yummy!) Also when cooking as much as possible from scratch you avoid artificial flavors, additives and preservatives. Yes, fresh vegetables can be expensive, however a big bag of traditional carrots (not the baby kind) is very cheap and it really doesn’t take that long to peel and cut up. This is a good reason to have your own garden. You can also get a bag of frozen vegetables for about 1.20$, not too bad! A ten pound bag of apples and a bunch of bananas or grapes (when in season) are all cheaper per pound than a box of cookies, and much healthier. I have a family of 7, and a 10 pound bag of apples lasts me about a month and a half, where as we can go through a box of cookies in an evening. I think it all comes down to how much time you are willing to spend on preparing food. To me it is worth it to feed my family good, nutritious food, while saving money. There are some items I am willing to pay more for. I am a big believer in organic milk and milk products, and that is a lot more expensive than the regular kind, about double. I do like to use sprouts, which can be very expensive, so I learned how to do my own sprouting. Same with yogurt, my family loves it, I make my own. I don’t use cold cereals either (except on Saturday and Sunday) I buy 2 boxes a month of Cherrios and that it is. I make my own granola, it is only a little cheaper but I know what is going into it.Here is a really good article related to healthy eating and budgets

http://www.bettertimesinfo.org/foodchallenge.htm
or
http://www.biblicalwomanhoodonline.com/blog.htm

P.S. In no way do I want to sound like I feed my kids 100% organic made-from-scratch foods, we eat our share of fast food and sugar! I would like to do better in this area!

I have a pet peeve that is sort of related to this post. It drives me up a wall when mothers say “oh, my kids won’t eat healthy, all they want are cookies/potato chip/juice….” I say…if they aren’t in the house, they can’t eat them. A child is not going to starve themselves. If they are hungry, and there are only apples in the house for a snack, they will eat the apple. I don’t buy chips, or cookies. The first reason is that if they are in the house I will eat them all, and we all know the last thing I need is more calories! The second is that if they aren’t in the house my kids won’t eat them. If you only offer the “good” stuff your kids will learn to like the “good” stuff. Now I am not saying that I never have treats, I love treats, but they are just that; a treat. I also have a dedicated “snack time”. I allow very little grazing. When the big kids get home from school they all sit down for a snack. I have a variety of snack foods. Cut up fruit, cut up veggies with dip, toast, sugar toast, hot chocolate and toast (wow that is a lot of toast!) pudding, fruit juice pops, yogurt smoothies (thanks Heatherann), graham crackers with peanut butter, graham crackers dipped in milk, cookies (I keep some in the freezer so they can be pulled out and baked quickly). They are things that are very simple, but will satisfy hungry tummies. Other times if the kids are hungry, they can always have an apple or a graham cracker. Remember, you are the mother; you are responsible for what goes into your kids mouths, at least when they are little. Don’t let a two year old decide what they are going to eat!

Soup Anyone?

In my continuing effort to train my daughters to be homemakers someday I decided that they needed cooking lessons.

I realized that I do all of the food preparation around my house. Which is OK, however, my girls need to start taking over some of that responsibility. Especially my 8 and 9 year old. They are definitely old enough to help in the kitchen and to be able to prepare some basic meals. I have found too that they really enjoy being with me in the kitchen cooking. We get to spend time together, talk and learn. I have found that once I got over the fact that everything might be a bit slower at first (I can chop a pot of veggies by my self quicker than my two girls can together) I really enjoyed the time with my girls too. I think too that it gives them a sense of accomplishment. When dinner is on the table they have the pride of knowing that they helped.

So here is our cast of characters last night.

Very basic stuff.
But easy enough that everybody got to help.
 
 
Baby Boy Punk, on finding a kitchen full of women, wisely retreated to the living room to chew on a toy in quiet.
Punk #3 got to put the bullion cubes in the pot of water. 


Baby Girl Punk, well, she munched on crackers and felt like she was helping.

Punk #1 Got to chop the onion. And discovered the fine art of crying over a chopped onion!

Look at how good she is doing. I had been married about 5 years before I mastered the art of a well chopped onion, and she is doing it at 9!


Punk #2 peeled and chopped the carrots. She had a great time plopping them in the pot of boiling water with out splashing!


Here Punk #2 is chopping the potatoes. I as a general rule do not peel potatoes. I don’t like taking the time, and the peel is the most nutritious part of the whole potato! I don’t even peel them for mashed potatoes, unless I am wanting to be fancy.


And, last, but not least. Punk #3 stirring the soup, she also got to add all the spices.


Now, the kids wanted me to take a picture of the soup cooking, but the steam kept fogging up the lens, so you will just have to take my word for it when I say that it looked really, really yummy. Especially on a freezing cold day like it was yesterday. They were all very excited to tell Dad that they helped make soup!

 

There once was a little girl…..

…who had a little curl
on the very top of her head
and when she was good
she was very, very good
and when she was bad
she was horrid!

That was a little poem I use to say to my punk#3
She was my only little baby that had curly hair, and I sure loved it!
As her hair grew out the curl went away
although, I am able to curl her hair very easily now.

I was at Target a few weeks ago, and I saw these fun looking curlers that reminded me of pioneer curlers, you know, the rag kind. So I bought a pack, and this has now become punk #3’s favorite hair style.
Here she is all done up last night in her “rag” curlers
Aren’t they so cute!

Here is a close up. There is a small sponge with a wire running though it, and it is all covered with cloth. It makes it easy, because I don’t have to tie the rags, but can bend them together.


Here she is in the morning. The curls come out really, really tight.


She is all brushed out. This is pretty enough. However, she likes it a little fancier.


So I pulled it all up in a pony tail.


Tucked it up with some bobby pins and added a flower

And she feels like a princess.